We have forked over thousands of dollars. We have worn holes in couches next to our life partners. We have tried and tried and tried to find answers by seeking out help. I’ve come to believe that only the people who we allow to touch our souls are able to really teach us about who we are. So, without further ado, here a few gems that my own relationships have made crystal clear to me. Perhaps you can try the same exercise?
The Positives:
– I deserve to be spoiled.
– I am a beautiful woman.
– I should never submit to anyone against my will but by choice only.
– I think just like Anaïs Nin.
– I love passionately and that is a good thing.
– I am a life-long learner.
– I am a community builder.
– I am inspiring in my deep spirituality.
– I am a good mom.
– I am strong and courageous.
– I am 100% honest (sometimes this is negative, if the other person isn’t to receive it)
The Constructive (these are really “Negatives”, but no one calls things that anymore):
– I am impatient to a fault.
– I have major issues with being interrupted.
– I am too rigid when it comes to planning.
– I don’t prioritize friendship well.
– I love flattery and attention more than I should.
– I am addicted to sex and the art of letting go.
– I have an overactive imagination and this causes anxiety.
My To Do List:
– I must form my own opinions based on facts, not other people’s opinions.
– We act, we do not react. Actively pursue quiet and calm, then make decisions from there.
– Use my words. Do not sit idly by.
– Connect with people regularly.
– Find daily ways to let go and relax that don’t involve sex.
– Practice spontaneity! Practice patience!
– Set boundaries and remove toxic relationships that don’t serve me.
What are some of the life lessons you’ve learned from your partners and relationships? I’d love to hear from you.
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